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So I am on day 33 today, and I started spotting this morning. Which means that I am going to get my period full-force tomorrow. Blah.

I had a cry this morning, and will probably have one tomorrow. For some reason, I didn't think it was going to happen this month; my BBT was all over the charts, I couldn't pinpoint my ovulation... I just didn't feel it. Still, by day 31-32, I started getting pretty damn excited that this might be the month. I even started imagining myself as pregnant.

I try to stay away from this blog, and any TTC blog--and anything TTC-related on the Internet, really, if i don't have to. It's like binge-eating or drinking. I know I should stay away, but sometimes I feel so upset that I just indulge. And right now, at the end of my fifth failed attempt at TTC, I am indulging. So anyway, while I'm here, let me update you:

I have started going to a Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) fertility specialist. Yeah, don't laugh. First of all, I'm a bit on the alternative side to begin with, but from what I've read, TMC seems to result in higher rates of success that Western modes of fertility assistance. For another thing, it involves just herbs and acupuncture, not any hormones that really mess with your system. For another, although my insurance does not cover it, it's cheaper than a "real" RE. Plus, it makes me feel proactive.

I've also bought a Clearblue Easy fertility monitor, which I'm going to use for the first time in this upcoming cycle. Another thing which will make me feel proactive. And will hopefully clue me in to whether I even am ovulating, since my BBT tells me zilch.

MY husband's closest friend told him yesterday that he and his wife are pregnant. They're three months along. This is the fourth person I've found out about who's gotten pregnant since we first started trying. Anyway, my husband asked him how long they'd been trying and he said they'd been trying for one and a half years. Whoa. I am not sure if this makes me feel worse of better, to be honest. I guess it makes me feel better, to know that I am not a complete freak since I haven't gotten pregnant yet, and that if there is hope for them then there is hope for me. On the other hand, I will absolutely lose it if it takes us that long. First of all, I will have to go see a "real" RE way before then. Especially my husband--what if his sperm count is low? (He, of course, it convinced he is totally normal. Typical guy.) Regardless, I am happy for them. I really am.

In the meantime, I am continuing with the TCM (acupuncture, herbs), have started taking Floradix, and will start using the fertility monitor.

God, how is this so easy for some people?